Bali, March 2007

For my friend who is confuse about the soul mate
The most glorious God creates anything in this world always different each other, what is in the shape, appearance, nature and habit. So also human being. He creates them always difference each other, woman and man, although they are twins, men and women, they were born from the same womb in a flash in the difference, sometimes they have same body shape, face, but ascertained there is something that differentiate it, what is nature of, habit and or its behavior. During growth of human being child become adult woman or man, environment where life them progressively differ, family environment, social, education, cultural and belief which also different each other.

Harmonious of human being interaction won’t be formed exactly from this difference, all important but this interaction actors realize fully to the existence of this difference. Saling asah, asuh, asih according to Sunda aphorism which don’t the differ from awareness of the existence of this difference. Each interaction actors realize of their advantages and disadvantages.

But the problem is how to develop the harmonious interaction, of course it has to collaborate with effort in both party, to be able to understand each other, take and give, the popular says, ’Win win solution’. This efforts will become heavier when more and more difference which must be accommodated, many interaction fail to reach harmonious because of this interaction actors can’t compromise all this difference.
So by realizing the existence of this difference, to reach this harmonious difference, mineralization is the single way. Which difference ? Characters and behavior are possible represent different to change in line wit adult time of someone x’self, although sometimes this matter doesn’t exposed a period of “pacaran” what usually only just a good thing, but how with cultural difference and confidence of religion, wow, that isn’t easy.

Difference is always there direct “proper” person in the reality isn’t also there, the answer is on yourself, you have to be ready to face this and don’t forget to ask to Gusti Pangeran.
Bleibt gesund und positive denken

Tshuss!!